The “Sex Talk”

     The most important aspect of the puberty conversation with any age child is that their body should be intimately loved, acknowledged, and appreciated, as they would love, acknowledge, and appreciate their own child. A physical body is a gift like no other. Each tiny part of the body is an integral and all-important aspect of the whole system. This relationship of the human body to all of its parts mirrors an individual soul’s relationship to God. It is this magnificent system, your physical body, which is currently a home to your soul.

     The overall purpose of a “sex talk” should move beyond simply teaching your children about sex, but rather instill in them a strong appreciation for their beloved vessel so that they may come to view it as a sacred instrument; and therefore, not abuse it, care for it, and be aware to notice changes in it. Help children understand that they’re meant to be active participants in the care and healing of their own body. It is helpful to acknowledge frequently all of the different body parts and their important functions. Encourage children to touch and talk to their body. At a young age, invite children to listen to their body and recognize what their body is telling them. This profound respect and acknowledgement of the body cannot begin soon enough.